Newsletter

• The Loneliness Project, Substack

Essays

• “The Octopus” in Ninth Letter, Honorable Mention Regeneration Award 2023

• “The Shifting Shape of Love” in Orion Magazine

• “Amidst Climate Grief, I’m Searching for Joy” at The Tyee

• “The Kind of Money That Can Change Your Life” in Women Talk Money, Anthology ed. Rebecca Walker

• Trying to Conceive Feels a Little Bit Less Awful than Not Trying at Catapult

• #MeToo and the Cult of Desirability at The Rumpus

• “On Anniversaries” in Love Me True, Anthology ed. Fiona Tinwei Lam and Jane Silcott

• Writing Love and Writing Essays on the Powell’s Books Blog

• To Stay in Love, Sign on the Dotted Line in The New York Times, Modern Love

• “Middle School Miracles” in Skirt

• To Fall in Love with Anyone, Do This in The New York Times, Modern Love

• “We Talked About Love” in Under the Gum Tree

• “Hypocorism or On Love and Naming” in Folio

• “Grind, Dose, Tamp, Flush, Pull, Drink” in Under the Sun

• “Contracting Iris” in The Fieldstone Review

• “Nor Ever Chaste” in Italy, A Love Story, Anthology

Journalism

• There Is So Much More than the Nuclear Family, Even Now at The Atlantic

• What You Lose When You Gain a Spouse at The Atlantic

Op-Eds

• Make friends, prepare for climate change at The Narwhal

• Non-monogamous relationships seem to be on the rise. Is that surprising? at The Guardian

• The Future of Marriage at RSA Journal

• Women Can Reclaim Power Over Our Bodies—By Talking About Them at The Guardian

• Men Have No Idea What Women Go Through to Have Children at The Guardian

• Chances are you know a sexual assault survivor. Do you know what to say? at The Guardian

• Five Myths About Valentine’s Day at The Washington Post

• It’s Time to Reimagine Consent in our Romantic Lives at The Guardian

• Forget ‘Friends’—Why We Really Need to Update the Love Stories We’re Obsessed With at Glamour

• You Should Care about My Life at The Walrus

• Five Myths About Love  at The Washington Post

• “The Canadian Sandwich” in The Vancouver Review

Advice

• A Better Version of Love at The Rumpus

• How To Make Friends After Thirty at The Rumpus

•  A Valentine to Aging Women at The Rumpus

• How to Trust After Trauma at The Rumpus

• Two Roads Diverged at a Picket Fence at The Rumpus

• The Power and Limits of Labels at The Rumpus

• Am I Too Fat for Love? at The Rumpus

• How Do You Break a Heart at The Rumpus

• Happy Wife, Happy Life at The Rumpus

• Why Do Men Always Want to Settle Down? at The Rumpus

• The Emotional Labor of Listening to Men Complain at The Rumpus

Art

• Surviving the Anxiety of Publishing by Drawing About It at LitHub

• Cover photo, FreeFall Magazine vol. XXIV no. 2

Reviews and Criticism

• In this love story, a few bits of wisdom amid woefully out-of-date ‘lessons’ in The Washington Post

• Rethinking the Breakup in Canadian Literature

• Mandy Len on Brian Doyle at Essay Daily